This weekend I bravely went where I haven't gone before. I signed up and attended a women's retreat at our new church. When we pulled up in the parking lot of the church I recognized no one. I said "Kirk, are you really going to leave me here?" For those of you who have known me a long time, this is a giant step for me. Being the nice husband he is, he helped me unload and carry my stuff to the woman with the clip board. I signed in and then tried to decide how to find someone to hitch a ride with. Finally, I recognized the children's minister. I scooted up to her group and said, with a smile "you're the only one here I know." She is a outgoing lady and she said "well then you'll have to ride with me and Alex." By the time we arrived at Riverbend Retreat Center, I was very car sick having ridden in the backseat of the car of a somewhat nervous highway driver. I also had spoken about three times and laughed a few more than that. I did know Dawn, Alex and Mendy, though. We unloaded and put our stuff in the least full side of the bunk house. Why was it the least full...it was the SNORING side, of course. Anyway, about 9pm we started our first session.
The whole point of this retreat was for the women of our church to get together and learn about how to better our women's ministry. We had about 40 women there. A retreat team named Woven (www.Woven310.org) did everything for us. They were great and most of them are local women. Friday night, we had a guest speaker (not of Woven) who taught about personality types and we all took a test and then were split up with our same types. The speaker was very good and spoke tongue in cheek about the different personalities. We did learn about each other and information that will help us put together a great womens ministry. Then we ate chili and lots of junk. There was a campfire and s'mores, too but it was freezing outside. I went to bed about 1pm. I went to sleep around 3-4. I never knew someone could snore that loud. I take that back..I never knew a woman could snore that loud.
By Saturday morning, I had hooked up with some friends. Jessica, Diana and I hiked to the dinning hall. It was a beautiful morning and we arrived early to a dinning hall full of kids. We hiked out behind the dinning hall and had a great view of the sun and a river. Breakfast was wonderful and then we hiked back to our morning session. Our retreat was tittled B4...before,belong,believe,become. The believe session hit me right between the eyes. It was about believing Him versus believing in Him. There is a great difference and the latter is much harder for me. Anyway, the really funny thing is they related B4 to our physical as well as our spiritual health. Since Kirk is on this get healthy kick I found it very humerous that the retreat had that as a theme also. (see Kirk's blog) As we were loadind up to go to the church, Kirk said "Do you know you probably drink 1000 calories a day in Dr. Pepper?" I , of course, said" you are the one who wants to get healthy not me." It's funny how God works.
So, we finished the day with an afternoon session and then headed home. The music, by the way was wonderful. Woven has two musicians (usually more I think) and then three of our ladies mixed in and made an awesome group. So, I rode home with my new friend Jessica, who is also a stay at home mom...Yeah!!! I also met Diana, who stays at home and wants to start a weekday womens Bible study. God is really growing our church and providing people who are willing to step up.
I want to throw a great big thank-you out to Kirk. He gladly took all the kids so I could attend the retreat. Karissa had a basketball game and a school carnival. The kids barely even missed me and the house was even pretty clean when I got home. Thanks also to Linda, Sharon and Ariel for helping Kirk with the logistics of four kids and one parent.